By Nairaland Forum I’m in a state of despair right now. I’m so tired, I’ve lost count of number of times I’ve cried and prayed, and had sleepness nights on this issue. I’m going to be as truthful and straight as possible.
I met this guy on fb, and then we met sometime last year. He was working in lag while I was serving in Enugu. I initially didn’t have any plans of dating him whatsoever but I liked him. Just wanted to have a fling. We eventually met and went down.
He asked me to be his woman, which I did because I loved him already. Things were going well. He registered me in a French school, sends me money. I wasn’t broke or hungry. Age difference was about 10 years so he took me serious.
One little problem that could have just been settled, escalated and since then, nothing has ever remained the same. I got jealous over the comments of one particular girl on his fb posts, called him out to it. Said she was just a friend. Didn’t believe him and made him angry and jealous with my own fb posts as well.
Issues started and he was angry. Things got so so bad and it was so hard settling. Insults were thrown and that made it worse. We never even saw each other during these times even up till now and it’s well past six months since that quarrel. I eventually found out nothing was going on between him and the babe sef.
Now the main gist. Early last month, he told me he wanted to spend Xmas with me. Well, I had mixed feelings.. Was happy and confused at the same time. In as much as I wanted us to see I didn’t want to see him for just sex.
I discussed this with my friend and told her I wasn’t going because it might just be for sex. Meanwhile I gave the guy serious hope about us seeing. I actually wanted to see him, but I wasn’t sure of the intention he had in mind. I don’t know how he got hold of the chat I had with my friend and I didn’t really say nice things about him in that chat. He showed it to me and I was shocked. My friend said it wasn’t her who sent it Read More
Source:: Nigerian Chatter